Overlook it, forgive or deal with it.

Offense/Issues:
As we go on in life we have to make allowances or give room for one another's faults and shortcomings.
Shortcomings, faults, mistakes are inevitable as long as we are in this box called 'flesh'. It means we are human so we will get things wrong sometimes.
Someone said "to err is human".
So what is the point I am making?
You will not be overwhelmed when someone you trust or someone you are close to messes up or disappoints you.
Make up ur mind to forgive even before an offense comes.
Offense as you know, when it's allowed to take roots defiles.
You can call up whoever it is and let them know how you have been upset by them.
Always be prepared to let go and let God whichever way it turns out.
Truly,
Yinka

What happens if you forgive?

Hey friend! Thanks 4 taking interest in this subject. The Scripture of my focus is Matt 18:21-35. It is obvious in this passage that forgiveness is very important to God. Indeed, it's a great, if not the greatest quality of a Christian. For example, a key point that brought us into God's kingdom is forgiveness. Our past is forgiven, our sins are forgotten and our debt is forgotten. Every member of the kingdom must live in forgiveness. I doubt whether we can remain in that kingdom with unforgiveness. We know, even Jesus said it is not possible to live in this world and not be offended. But the grace of God is what helps us to forgive.In my message, I tried to highlight the benefits of forgiveness which I titled "What happens if you forgive?" 1. You will be forgiven. (Matt 6:14) 2. You'll be saved from physical cause. Not forgiving weakens your body. "In one study, people who focused on a personal grudge had elevated blood pressure and heart rates, as well as increased muscle tension and feelings of being less in control. When asked to imagine forgiving the person who had hurt them, the participants said they felt more positive and relaxed and thus, the changes dissipated. Other studies have shown that forgiveness has positive effects on psychological health too" (Mayo Clinic). 3. You will be happy. You know from experience that no one is ever truly happy if they have unforgiveness in their heart. 4. Forgiveness is good news for relationships. We have to forgive "lest Satan should take advantage of us" (2 Corinthians 2:11). 5. You will be blessed. God wants us to forgive because when we do, we will inherit all that he has for us. (1 Peter3:9). Jesus said offense will come but blessed are you when you are not offended. 6. Your prayers will be answered. (Mark 11:25). 7. You will grow and mature as a Christian.Another thing I highlighted was the 'how of forgiveness' taking into consideration that forgiveness is not an easy process. Eny, it helps to remember that we forgive those who transgress against us for our own good as much as for theirs.(Matt 5:7).I pointed out "Prayer" as an effective tool to achieve living a lifestyle of forgiveness. As you talk to God about those hurtful things, he will give you his heart of love. You always love the person you pray for. You have to try it to experience it! Another way is to be accountable to someone or people who love you and who you can trust. Tell them to correct or show you whenever they see a sign of unforgiveness in you. In that way, you listen and accept their counsel and do something positive about what they point out to you.Of course, you should also practise asking for God's forgiveness and forgiving people regularly.Finally, as followers of Christ, our purpose should be to build the kingdom of God and fulfil his purpose...speak his words, and not our own. Our confidence must come from our walk with God, and not from what others think of us. Let it go, forgive, and be at peace. Luv ya!